The easy solution
Don’t tell me you’ve got the answer cause then another one will come along soon
–The Answer by Bad Religion
We live in a society that is enamoured with the idea of shortcuts. If there is a quicker, easier way to do something then that’s what people want. Lose 10 pounds in a week! Make $10,000 a month from your home! Meet the spouse of your dreams in 5 easy steps! The headlines of our instant gratification society call out and pander to the desire for the easy solution. Even when something is not obviously a sales pitch, it often ends up making some out as being easier than it really is. Take blogging for example. I’ve read tons of articles on how easy it is to blog and make a living through it. Now I’m not interested in making a living from blogging, but I do enjoy refining my writing skill and from hearing my readers thoughts and learning from them. However there is no way that blogging is easy. Writing one article is no problem, but continually writing interesting posts as well as all the web site skills takes a lot of work. There is no simple quick fix to it. It’s not an easy solution.
This is how all things in life are. If you want something then you are going to have to work hard for it. A minimum of effort usually ends up leading to a minimum of results. And as for those easy solutions that people are always trying to sell us… if there was one that really worked don’t you think that everyone would already be doing it? The hair replacement ads are my favorite… if someone came up with an effective way to regrow hair then that person would be a multi-millionaire and everyone would want that product. But the easy solution is again just smoke, mirrors, and marketing.
So what does this mean if there is no easy solution? It means that we have to be prepared to give our all if we really want to accomplish a goal. If you want to excel at a sport then be prepared to practice for hours and hours. If you want to start you own business then be prepared for the hard work you’ll need to put in. If you want to meet new and exciting people you have to be ready to step outside of your comfort zone. It also means that in life it is difficult to be a jack of all trades. If you do everything reasonably well then you’ll be faced with a large amount of competition that can do it better than you. However if you avoid looking for easy solutions and pick one thing about which you are truly passionate, then you can put in the hard work needed to excel. It’s through excellence that we gain happiness and achieve our goals.
There is always going to be another quick way to better yourself that someone is pushing. But next time you see one of these, think back on other easy solutions you’ve tried. How did it go? How did you feel? I always felt frustrated when I didn’t get the results I was promised and that had seemed to simple. That’s the truth about what we get by taking the easy way out - frustration. So do some soul searching and pick a few things to be great at and start the hard work of doing what is necessary to be your best self.
Tags: culture, easy solution, entrepreneur, relationships
April 5th, 2008 at 1:41 pm
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May 10th, 2008 at 8:56 pm
so let me ask you a question …
you start off the article by quoting someone who implies there is “no answer”. and then you end by saying
“That’s the truth about what we get by taking the easy way out - frustration. So do some soul searching and pick a few things to be great at and start the hard work of doing what is necessary to be your best self.”
i see a contradiction here. maybe you don’t - can you explain?
my take: sometimes it’s real easy. sometimes it’s real hard. often it’s somewhere in between.
June 10th, 2008 at 7:54 am
George Leonard writes very sincerely of mastery being a lifelong devotion to the practice of mastery - the ups, downs, twists and in-betweens of learning a skill, earning a living, being a parent etc.
In Chapter 2 of his book, Mastery he introduces behaviour types that search for a way around all this hard work - and he labels them as “Dabbler”, “Obsessive” and “Hacker”.
The reality (that he acknowledges in the book) is that we are often a changing combination of these types (as well as an aspiring master) in one or more aspects of our lives.
A recommended read for the master in all of us.
regards
mark mcclure
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